Trouble with dating
At the same time however, our society teaches us that for men, being good with women is a binary state; either you’re skilled at talking to them, interacting with them and seducing them or you aren’t. But to want to improve at one of the most fundamental areas of human life is shameful.
This unhelpful attitude can frequently be found in the comments section of articles talking about the PUA community – the phrase “losers”, “freaks” and the like are tossed around fairly freely, which reinforces the idea that In many ways it’s easier for women.
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On Wednesday, a Kickstarter project for a self-published book on picking up women entitled “Above The Game” started rocketing across blogs and Twitter. Ken Hoinsky shared excerpts from the upcoming book on r/seduction… As soon as the controversy broke, he took them down, but the Google cache is still available.
As a result, there’s an entire industry built on women’s dating advice, from magazines to books to TV shows.
Some of it is good, some of it is awful, and some of it is absolutely absurd, but it’s There isn’t as much out there for men.
I learned more about how to present myself in a positive manner, how to flirt, how to dress and, yes, how to seduce women. I lived a life that I didn’t think I could ever know, did things I never thought I’d have a chance to experience and I had a it took me a while to climb back out of that hole.
One thing that most people who enter the pick-up community have in common is that they’re intimidated by women. Men who are at ease with women have an easier time talking to them, flirting with them and asking them out on dates; these are generally not the people who enter “how to meet women” into Google.
I learned how to overcome many self-limiting beliefs about who I was and what I was capable of.
Moreover, those who are blessed with a seemingly-innate affinity to women – “Naturals” in PUA lingo – often don’t what they’re doing.
They’re just being themselves; they don’t know how to articulate it into anything other than “I guess women just like me”.
She wants to be desired, but the circumstances need to be right.
With some experience, you will learn to differentiate the I am actually not anti-pick up in general.
The most obvious is the use of the 10 scale – referring to women in field reports (effectively “after action” reports of how their night went, posted to various forums and sub-reddits) as HB (for “hot body”) 7 or 8 instead of by name.